No Letters Please -- for Andrea Sutcliffe and others by Julia Jones

“On October 6 th , very suddenly, Beedings, Tunbridge Wells, Daphne, dearly loved younger daughter of Francis and Hazel Winstone-Scott. No letters please.” ( Sevenoaks Chronicle & Kentish Advertiser 12.10.1945). Daphne was my mother’s younger sister. She had gone up to her bedroom, that Saturday evening, and shot herself with their father’s WW1 revolver. It was 1945 and she was just fifteen. I learn now, from checking old newspapers, (oh, the magic of the internet!) that Daphne had suffered periods of illness from the age of six and had spent eighteen months in bed when she was twelve. I remember that one of my aunts had told me long ago that Daphne had suffered from kidney disease and committed suicide because she realised she was going to die anyway. In fact d ialysis was already entering the development stage by 1945 -- but Daphne didn't know that. A Daily Mirror report dubbed her “the girl who would never grow up.” (8.10.1945)...