CHARMING MEN and CHAUVINISTS - by Susan Jane Smith B.Sc
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| Susan Jane Smith B.Sc |
Women, be warned –
charming men can have a dark side – they make a woman feel wonderful as long as
they are getting their needs met. When
they cannot get their own way, watch out!
Venom!
This is how I started a chapter in my book Emotional
Health for Emotional Wealth because that is what I have observed in
over 20 years of professional experience looking at all sorts of relationships.
Charm is a way of
overwhelming another person’s perceptions and can sometimes turn abusive. People need to be clear that "domestic
violence is an abuse of power as it is taking advantage over someone else. People (and yes, there are some violent
women) who feel the need to do this feel inadequate and the abuse gives them a
false sense of power. Physical strength
only gives the illusion of power. It is the centred, stable person where true power is wielded with wisdom and
responsibility and a thought for the person on the receiving end.”
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| Emotional Health for Emotional Wealth |
I am a retired Psychotherapist/Counsellor/Divorce
Mediator. My comments are not about
hating men as I have met hundreds of lovely men and women in unhappy
relationships. Many of the problems
could be sorted out with the fundamental - better communication skills. Sometimes, there were personality problems
which would not work with any partner and this is what is exposed in this
chapter of my book.
So, if you know anyone in an unhappy relationship please tell
them about my book Emotional Health for Emotional Wealth available on Kindle as an
e-book, order the paperback at a bookstore or via my website:
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