When Does Dependency on Email Become Addiction? Andrew Crofts
When you work alone most of the time,
and when you need the outside world to buy your products or bring you
interesting commissions, you have to depend on some sort of communications
lifeline. The question is; when does “dependency” tip into “addiction”?
It used to be the post. Every day I
would be waiting eagerly for a precious letter of acceptance from a publisher,
or an enquiry letter or – most crucially – a cheque. Most days there was that inevitable
moment of disappointment when the postman was walking away leaving nothing of
interest on the doormat or, far worse, a manuscript thumped in with a rejection
letter.
Then I got a telephone line of my own
and that became my lifeline. I hardly dared move out of earshot of its ring,
(phones were still tethered to the wall). I dreamed of the day when someone
would invent a cordless phone so I could at least go out into the garden while
waiting for the wonderful calls that came so sporadically.
Before someone got round to the
cordless phone, of course, there was the answering machine, and the excitement
of a blinking red light waiting for my return if I should venture out for any
reason. But then there was the inevitable “ping-pong” of messages back and
forth between answering machines as I tried to get back to the person who had
left the message – and everyone went home at five o’clock anyway and then I had
no chance of talking to them till the next day.
Then the technology wizards created
email and all was well. It was possible to communicate almost instantly, unlike
waiting days or weeks for the post, and it avoided the time-consuming social requirements
of phone calls. It also connected me to the whole world as easily as to my
local village.
Today, virtually every exciting
enquiry or communication comes through email. On average there will be two of
three good ones a day. So now the problem is avoiding the temptation to
interrupt the slog of actual writing to check these emails for interesting
stories or offers.
I’m aware that I should now be
doing all this on my smart phone, but I fear that may be a step too far for
someone with an addiction problem. If my phone can literally interrupt me at
any moment in the day, however inconvenient, would I be able to resist
responding? If I were deep in an interviewing situation and an intriguing call
came in from some exotic location or individual, would I be able to maintain
the necessary levels of concentration? If I was at a family gathering and ….
Well, that could be recipe for potential disaster, as anyone who has ever tried
to walk the tightrope of a writer’s work/life balance will well know.
Comments
What could happen if you don't spot that letter/phone/email/text in time and answer it? . . . Who could it be? Somone known? A stranger? . . . What do they want? . . I sit a cry for help, an offer that will change things forever? Do YOU have to make a response and how rapidly? AND WHAT IS THE CONSEQUENCE OF THAT MESSAGE NOT BEING PICKED UP OR ANSWERED IN TIME? (Suspenseful music . .)
It's hopeless curiosity,really. Just keep away and/or resist to the best of your abilities. :-)